I was feeling overwhelmed with the many needs of my small congregation, which seems to have many people suffering with chronic illness. The Holy Spirit brought to me the idea of doing a healing service, during our regular worship. Services of Healing are a part of my tradition (United Methodist) and there is an order of worship prescribed for the service. I have attended one service like this and felt very moved. I inquired as to whether a service like this has every been done at our church and the answer was no. I would like to incorporate an altar call, with anointing with oil, and I would like practical suggestions for explaining the Biblical tradition of anointing and oil as well as what vessel to put the oil in and how to apply it. My questions are, 1) How do I prepare the congregation for this new service? 2) How do I welcome people to come forward without pressuring them? 3) What do I do if no one comes forward? and 4) What do I do after the service for follow up care?
I don't have much personal experience with services of healing, but we sponsored a series one year during Lent. The services were held mid-week, in the evening, and we happened to hold our services in the chapel of our local retirement community and in the chapel of our local hospital. Our worship planning team liked the idea of more intimate spaces than our sanctuary and at a different time, so that folks knew that they were intentionally attending something different. We included folks in the planning of worship who had special gifts for music, prayer and healing (we're blessed to have a massage therapist who has a lot of knowledge of essential oils and their properties for healing.)
We prepared the congregation with write-ups in the church newsletter as well as verbal explanations in the context of Sunday worship.
We invited people to attend for themselves or on behalf of someone for whom they were concerned for healing. We had two or three stations of healers/prayers, so that folks could choose who they wished to approach, and so that people didn't feel as though they were being observed while they came forward. One person would anoint and the other would listen to the person's need, and then pray for/with them. Because these were intentional services of healing, we always had folks come forward, but if no one had come forward, there would have still been music playing (we had instrumentalists and vocal music on different weeks) and a worship leader would offer a general prayer for healing after some time and some music. I don't think it would have felt awkward.
We handled follow-up care in the same way as we would any pastoral care issue. We called several days later, or whenever we felt it was appropriate, to ask about the person and to see if there was anything we could do to be helpful.
You're to be commended for seeking to find a compassionate and helpful way to respond to the needs of the congregation you serve. As always, enlisting the support and talents of others in the congregation seems to strengthen a congregation's acceptance of and positive experiences with something new...
I would introduce a new rite during the service only after trying it out at a non Sunday service. Get some of your bible study group, or explain to your youth group that you are trying out something new. Or offer it as a special healing service on an alternate day. Then get those who do attend that service to share their experiences either in a note in the Sunday bulletin or in the newsletter. Coffee hour and “parking lots” often help getting this special service out of the scary into the place where it is inviting.
Also, I hope you are already anointing people when you visit in hospital. The remembrance of that type of care will help those who have chronic illnesses to come forward.
On the Sunday that you do decide to introduce this rite into your service, have some people whom you have already gone through a smaller experience and make sure that they are there. In other words, ‘salt’ your congregation with those who will step forward. It will be those intrepid few that will get the ball rolling. Make sure that they know what they are supposed to do and what to expect when hands are laid upon or oil is used. Have some tissues available because who know where the Spirit will blow! I have also used those in the health professions to lay hands on with me. Doctors, nurses, physical therapists do this everyday. And when they see the sacredness of their work, and how to use their faith in their own profession it expands their ministry too.
Several parishes I have served had never done the washing of the feet during Holy Week. I talked about it both in and out of the service encouraging those who had never experience the rite. It worked splendidly in CA but in Upstate NY, I couldn’t get folks to part with their soxs in March or April! Know your folk well enough to know where you can lead and where you can’t. Also if you have a need for healing, make sure that there is someone who will anoint you during the service.
I have used a cruet—a small pitcher with the oil in it. After anointing (or administering ashes ) I always have a slice of lemon and some paper towels, and/or cotton on hand to keep from driving the Altar Guild nutz. The lemon cuts the oil and keeps the oil out of good linens. You can also use an oil stock. I personally am too cheap to buy an expensive oil stock so I buy a keychain pill container, put some cotton in it and soak the cotton with blessed olive oil. That way I can have it on the altar or carry it with me in hospital at all times.
Follow up care should be informal. The same way that you would do for anyone who is ill in the congregation—a phone call, a comment when you greet them at the church door. If they have something spectacular to tell you, they will!
And Ruth, who blogs at Sunday's Coming, responds:
It’s always good to hear about pastors wanting to introduce a healing service to their churches.
My advice would be to try to get a small group interested in this – so that it is seen as a ministry of the church and not just ‘your thing’. It might be good to do some teaching/preaching on this in a planned way to as many of the community as you can, then ask for a group to form to discuss/plan/pray, then ask for this group to be involved in the service itself.
In one church where I was involved in a healing ministry, we (the team of 3 leading the service) would, at the start of the time to come to the altar, each in turn kneel and receive prayer from the other two. This helps to ‘break the ice’ and models what to do, but more importantly shows that we are all in need of healing, and that it is the body of Christ which offers it, not any one individual.
It also helps to tell people they can just remain in their seats – and mean it! - coming forward really isn’t for everyone.
As for follow up – some people will simply be happy to have been prayed for in the service, but you could have cards to drop into a ox/the offertory plate for those who want either further prayer or a pastoral visit.
I hope the congregation get behind this good idea!
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